Client keeps deleted reference message cached causing a reply to fail to send

Can reproduce CR: Notably, on the mobile app if the repliedTo message is deleted, the message removes the reply. Canary Desktop 2026.602.31138, Web 2026.605.11941, Linux 7.0.12-101.fc43.x86_64 (x64), Electron 41.2.2, Chrome 146.0.7680.188, Node 24.14.1, Locale en-US